Time of Month: Waxing Moon Supplies: Cynnamon Charmed Love Ball and offering
Tips: Be sure to read through the ritual beforehand so that you can know what to expect and have set up. This allows things to flow much more smoothly without decreasing energy. Also, the Imbolc Correspondence blog posted on 1/23/18 will be highly beneficial since we are seeking the same energy here. Therefore, the correspondence list will be very affective in love spell work so be sure to have that handy if you need it for reference.
Clean, organize and set up your altar. Adding items that seem appropriate and removing others that don’t feel right. Our Cynnamon Charmed Imbolc Correspondence will help you select stones, herbs, offerings, deity, etc.
Create sacred space
Call your deity as your tradition suggests.
Take time to ground and center yourself
Holding in your hands your Love Ball, meditate on our beautiful moon and visualize her in her waxing form. She is a maturing maiden, almost a mother. She has already found love and is ready to give birth soon. Visualize the love ball as yourself and the moon. You are both full of life. Full of passion, love, romance, etc. But you fear this love is becoming stagnant. You want to your feelings to grow and you want to move into the next stage of your relationship. Like the maiden is ready to be mother, you too are ready to grow and intensify all that has been allowed to blossom within you. On strips of paper write down all the things that need growth. Do you need to spend more time together? Date nights? Make love more often? Ready to take the next step? Meet the family? Share your feelings verbally? What areas do you need to work on or wish to give a shove? Using a word or small phrase and write them down.
When you are finished hold the ball in your hand and concentrate on all the desires you wish to manifest. What would it look like if your love was all that you wrote down on these tiny papers? What would it look like on a day to day basis? What would those interactions be like? What would it look like in a month , in a year, how about the rest of your life? Remember you are focusing on the relationship, on the love and the emotional/physical/mental energy not the specific person. You want to draw and bind that energy not bind the person. As you tie each paper onto the ball’s strings you are releasing that energy to the gods sending them your message of intent. Be sure to feel that energy release as the knots are tied one by one.
Now is the time for your offering, whatever you have chosen for that to be.
Thank the deity and release them.
Close your sacred space like your tradition suggests.
Be open through the next moon cycle to see how your relationship has grown, stabilized or changed. Remember your intent was in strengthening the love already present. You cannot expect this to work if the love was not reciprocated in the beginning.